If you wish to direct how your assets will be distributed, you should have a will. You can leave all of your assets and belongings to one or more specific individuals, charities, or family members. The first step is naming an executor. Typically, married individuals name their spouses; however, if your spouse is incapacitated or unable, or if you are single or widowed, you can name another individual you trust as your executor. The executor's responsibilities include collecting and organizing your financial papers, gathering your assets, paying any outstanding bills, selling your home if necessary, and answering relatives' questions and making sure that your wishes are fulfilled.
If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me:
Robert Maher
Law Office of Robert J. Maher, P.C.
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New York, NY 10007
212-939-7548